Can't Sleep? These techniques may help 

Most of us need between six and eight hours of sleep per night.  Occasionally sleeping five or four hours per night is not a 

big deal.  Perhaps it is all your body needs at the time.  

To fall asleep faster, rise the same time each morning including weekends.  

Avoid bright light before retiring.  Have a candle lit bath and/or read a book with a small lamp.  No stressful activities before 

bedtime such as paying bills or exciting games.  

Put lavender or jasmine near your pillow when you sleep.  These two fragrances are said to stimulate the olfactory sensors 

above your nose and induce a state of relaxation.  

Exercise is essential in assuring a good night sleep provide it is done any time before three hours of retiring.  You need ample 

time for your body temperature to cool down which will also induce a speedy and restful sleep.  

Have a light snack containing tryptophan such as turkey, milk, cheese, or peanut butter.  

Avoid alcohol at night.  

Change sleeping position.  

Avoid spicy foods as well as chocolate and coffee.  

Avoid heavy meals 3 hours before bedtime.  

Avoid lying down after eating.  

Failing the above - take one Gravol.  It not only makes you sleepy, it quiets the mind (but see your doctor or pharmacist as it may interfere with medication or allergies).  The only side effect is grogginess in the morning.

The essence of stress is over reaction. We tend to make things up in our mind and worry about them as if we have a psychic mind - we tend to catastrophize. So instead -
Keep a happy Journal. Write down what made you happy today. Applaud your life
Lighten up...take the seriousness out of things
Laugh
Hug

Tickle
Have a day of psychodrama with your mate. You are king for a day, she can be queen for a day. You are only limited by your imagination!

Is it anxiety? Or Memory X

Do you have anxiety? Panic Attacks, Phobias? OCD? Is it real? Or is it Memory-x?

Lets be clear. We are born with two fears. Fear of falling and fear of loud noises. The rest are all learned. Everything we experience can be compared to past experiences. You see the moment you experience and event in your life, pleasant or unpleasant the brain will search your memory for something to compare it to. The experience from the past may be totally unrelated to the present but the brain will magnify the experience from the past and create a false sense of panic or ecstacy. 

 Furthermore, 

Science has discovered that the fears a parent experiences can be passed down to their children. The results of experiments with mice suggest that fallout from a person's traumatic experiences may extend through generations.

 Epigenetic marks (DNA methylation,) can be acquired on the DNA of one generation and stably passed on through the  (sperm and eggs) to the next generation. In other words, experiences and environmental exposures can change the way your DNA works (without changing the DNA itself) and this could be passed on to your offspring.

In short Your experiencing someone else’s anxiety! Its not yours to suffer with!

Other causes of anxiety and other stress related disorders include medical conditions such as diabetes, thyroid, high cholesterol and pulmonary vascular contractions where the heart gives you and extra beat but it gives the illusion that the heart stops and starts again. Allergic reactions to certain foods and caffeine can cause similar effects.

So if you experience anxiety or other stress related disorders consider what I have said then chill out listen to some music get some exercise have some fun. If you still have these symptoms see your doctor or other health care professional.

This advice is not intended to replace the care of a physician or other health care professional.